An inseparable tandem.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
Problems.
Problems are not that easy to handle. Some problems are formidable, others are just simple misunderstandings. I don't blame those people who misinterpret things because I believe that nobody is perfect. EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES. Don't you think? Everybody is at fault, as a matter of fact.
In a situation, each side has his/her own story. But of course, the only one who knows the whole truth is no other than God. There are different things that lead to fights, arguments or quarrels. These are: *as I have said*, misunderstanding, envy, cruelty and many others.
I. MISUNDERSTANDING
- It's normal for people to misunderstand things in various ways. People misunderstand because of their own beliefs, they believe in rumors and such. Or sometimes because of being unaware of some occurrences that are happening.
II. ENVY
- Most of us encounter jealousy due to misapprehension, selfishness and so on. We all envy. It's alright if you envy someone. Sometimes you envy because you idolize them. Sometimes you envy because you want to be like them. But one thing's for sure, jealousy is a sin, in my opinion...
III. CRUELTY
- People tend to get problems about friendship due to cruelty. There's a possibility that they will betray their friend in a specific reason. But everyone has his/her own weakness. No one is strong except for God Almighty.
Problems can be solved by apologizing which is one way to show sincerity and to show how sorry you are for what you have done. People should also avoid arguing with others if in the end they realize that it's just a damn misunderstanding.
♥BE HAPPY. LOVE YOUR LIFE
In a situation, each side has his/her own story. But of course, the only one who knows the whole truth is no other than God. There are different things that lead to fights, arguments or quarrels. These are: *as I have said*, misunderstanding, envy, cruelty and many others.
I. MISUNDERSTANDING
- It's normal for people to misunderstand things in various ways. People misunderstand because of their own beliefs, they believe in rumors and such. Or sometimes because of being unaware of some occurrences that are happening.
II. ENVY
- Most of us encounter jealousy due to misapprehension, selfishness and so on. We all envy. It's alright if you envy someone. Sometimes you envy because you idolize them. Sometimes you envy because you want to be like them. But one thing's for sure, jealousy is a sin, in my opinion...
III. CRUELTY
- People tend to get problems about friendship due to cruelty. There's a possibility that they will betray their friend in a specific reason. But everyone has his/her own weakness. No one is strong except for God Almighty.
Problems can be solved by apologizing which is one way to show sincerity and to show how sorry you are for what you have done. People should also avoid arguing with others if in the end they realize that it's just a damn misunderstanding.
♥BE HAPPY. LOVE YOUR LIFE
Labels: arguments, envy, friendship, problems
Posted on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 at 9:13 PM.
And the weekend begins.
I don't hate weekends. Sometimes I do dislike them. I know you don't get to make all those homeworks, you don't need to sleep early and you don't need to wake up early and most of all, you don't need to CRAM. ((: But hey, sometimes it can be too boring during weekends. It's more fun being in school with your friends and having fun! Yeah. :D
I changed my layout here a few hours ago and man, I'm loving it! Wow, I know that I'm such a vain person but hey, I loathe vain people. I only tend to be vain whenever I'm proud of something. LOL.
Let's see. I used the internet all day (almost). I woke up around 7am. I used the computer, ate breakfast. I took a bath at around 9am, I guess. My piano teacher called me and she told me that I'll have my piano lessons at 3pm then I said yes. Me and my mom went to Sta. Barbara and visited tita Rizza and blah. We arrived and they were praying. It ended so soon and we ate lunch.
After eating, my mom talked to some of our relatives and I text-messaged some of my friends. At 12:30pm, we left the house and went back to Dagupan. We went home and I used the computer. My mom left and went to Star Plaza for her meeting. I took a nap for a couple of minutes and woke up around 3pm. I continued using the PC and I chatted with some of my friends. I ate noodles and egg at 4pm. Then, I blog-hopped and surfed the internet.
Ken & LC also called me around 5, I think. LOL. They told me that my style is changing and I'm turning into a nerd. Hahaha! Then while talking, I said.. "Why? You don't like it?". LC replied, "Nope. Ken and I are liking it". Wow! Hahaha. I was like, "Whoa!". ((:
My mom arrived at 6? I forgot. She used the other PC and I took a shower. After showering, I did something with wax. Haha. And then, I used the computer (inside my brother's room). Oh yeah! I won 3rd place in Juicing Thoughts. Visit my other blog for the banner that I've won. Yay! Thanks for all the people who voted for me. I really appreciate them. (:
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I'm trying to forget you. Trying to find a way just to erase all those days. I guess I can call this a
"fresh start". And I hope we'll still be friends. Minutes ago, I've asked you if we still are friends. And I'm quite glad that you said yes. No more fights, alright? I hope we can still bring back the past, though. <3
I changed my layout here a few hours ago and man, I'm loving it! Wow, I know that I'm such a vain person but hey, I loathe vain people. I only tend to be vain whenever I'm proud of something. LOL.
Let's see. I used the internet all day (almost). I woke up around 7am. I used the computer, ate breakfast. I took a bath at around 9am, I guess. My piano teacher called me and she told me that I'll have my piano lessons at 3pm then I said yes. Me and my mom went to Sta. Barbara and visited tita Rizza and blah. We arrived and they were praying. It ended so soon and we ate lunch.
After eating, my mom talked to some of our relatives and I text-messaged some of my friends. At 12:30pm, we left the house and went back to Dagupan. We went home and I used the computer. My mom left and went to Star Plaza for her meeting. I took a nap for a couple of minutes and woke up around 3pm. I continued using the PC and I chatted with some of my friends. I ate noodles and egg at 4pm. Then, I blog-hopped and surfed the internet.
Ken & LC also called me around 5, I think. LOL. They told me that my style is changing and I'm turning into a nerd. Hahaha! Then while talking, I said.. "Why? You don't like it?". LC replied, "Nope. Ken and I are liking it". Wow! Hahaha. I was like, "Whoa!". ((:
My mom arrived at 6? I forgot. She used the other PC and I took a shower. After showering, I did something with wax. Haha. And then, I used the computer (inside my brother's room). Oh yeah! I won 3rd place in Juicing Thoughts. Visit my other blog for the banner that I've won. Yay! Thanks for all the people who voted for me. I really appreciate them. (:
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I'm trying to forget you. Trying to find a way just to erase all those days. I guess I can call this a
"fresh start". And I hope we'll still be friends. Minutes ago, I've asked you if we still are friends. And I'm quite glad that you said yes. No more fights, alright? I hope we can still bring back the past, though. <3
Labels: 3rd place, bringing back, friendship, weekend
Posted on Saturday, November 29, 2008 at 9:11 PM.
thoughts
I've realized that friendship can end in just one blink of an eye. Many things had happened this school year just after three months. Friendships had been torn apart. People had changed. Things are new.
Our friendship has torn apart. But, I know that there is still a 100% possibility that we will be together again. But, whatever. I'm happy no matter who I'm with or even if everyone hates me. But, I have wondered. I have thoughts. I've realized something. Something that is really common and something that always happens. And I have this question to ask you, my friend.
Why our people different these days? Why do people stab other people's backs? Is it truly normal or is it them? Well, I noticed that a lot of people including me.. are back stabbed. Well, there are fights. And they get together, again. It just sucks. And I hate it. You fight, but then again, you apologize, acceptance and there you go, friends again. I know that being friends again is nice and whatsoever. But, isn't it ludicrous? Quarrels, and then you are friends again? Fight, friends, fight, friends. Damn. I'm sick of all those junk. If you're tired as well, I think my advice for you my friend is.. Stop being friends with people that you know that they're backstabber's.
I know it's not that easy doing it, and I know it's completely complicated, but probably it's the best thing to do. I mean, not all human-beings live just because of their friends. Am I right? A person told me so, and I realized.. Yes, it's true. I know and I believe that I could live without friends. But there are words in my mind. Which are "move on". An end always has a beginning. You can start again. Make new friends and I bet that you'll be closer than ever. Me? I've already moved on. I've got a lot of friends and our friendship (me & others) is fine. We still talk, we eat together. But I will no longer use other people just to make my "enemies" or "best friends" jealous or make them miss me. No, sir. I mean, that's old school, man. Why would I ever use people? And yes, I know that I did that before. But I regret doing this thing. That's why I decided on not doing it again. And I know several people who do this. I won't mention names because I'm not that wicked. Well, I just hope that they'll change. I hope that they will not use people just to get what they want. It's totally a wrong thing to do.
Hm. Friendship? There are many things that you can tell about this word. There can be fights, arguments. Envy? Hatred. And sometimes there's this word called sorrow. I know that you guys feel the pain inside and I know that you're just hiding it. I myself, I hide it. I don't want people to see me sad for they will try to cheer me up, but I know that it's useless. Well, many things have changed. First, I was friends with her. Then she is now friends with blah. I know. So weird. Friendship can end.. Very fast. I mean, very very fast. It's like throwing an old toy. Once you find a new one, you throw the old one up. Replaced. Ouch. Hurts, right? I know how it feels 'cause I felt it.
Maybe a lot of times, maybe a few times. It really doesn't matter at all. Why is there friendship? Why is there friendship if you just keep on fighting with each other? It never ends. Even if you try to stop, it would still happen. I try to stop, but there's no use. Arguments here, arguments there. They're everywhere!! Whatever you do, they're still there. Not only I, but I know that a lot of people have fights. I mean, who doesn't? Everyone has fights! Even if you don't think so, still, there are. Apologies, some are accepted, some are not. But, if you keep on apologizing, honey, what will happen to you? I rather be not forgiven than to be stupidly apologizing even if it's not my fault. I know, full of pride. But seriously, just keep apologizing? Are you kidding me? Yes, I know. You should apologize even though you don't feel like it. But, in my opinion, sometimes you just have to wait for them to do something they have to do. Some people are too forgiving, some don't show mercy. Maybe I'm one of them, maybe I'm part-time forgiving and part-time showing-no-mercy. Yes, I'm nice.. And I'm mean, at the same time.
The bottom line is, people, why do you ever befriend other people if you just keep on fighting with them? I mean, I'm tired of all those stupidity. I just hope everyone would stop arguing with each other. Stop all those fights and be friends. All of us are brothers and sisters. So, we should not argue with each other. Instead, we should love each other. No matter how much you hate people, you should still love them somewhat. Friendship can be a silly word. But friendship really means a lot of stuff. Special things, stupid things. What I know is, friendship is a treasure.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
Our friendship has torn apart. But, I know that there is still a 100% possibility that we will be together again. But, whatever. I'm happy no matter who I'm with or even if everyone hates me. But, I have wondered. I have thoughts. I've realized something. Something that is really common and something that always happens. And I have this question to ask you, my friend.
Why our people different these days? Why do people stab other people's backs? Is it truly normal or is it them? Well, I noticed that a lot of people including me.. are back stabbed. Well, there are fights. And they get together, again. It just sucks. And I hate it. You fight, but then again, you apologize, acceptance and there you go, friends again. I know that being friends again is nice and whatsoever. But, isn't it ludicrous? Quarrels, and then you are friends again? Fight, friends, fight, friends. Damn. I'm sick of all those junk. If you're tired as well, I think my advice for you my friend is.. Stop being friends with people that you know that they're backstabber's.
I know it's not that easy doing it, and I know it's completely complicated, but probably it's the best thing to do. I mean, not all human-beings live just because of their friends. Am I right? A person told me so, and I realized.. Yes, it's true. I know and I believe that I could live without friends. But there are words in my mind. Which are "move on". An end always has a beginning. You can start again. Make new friends and I bet that you'll be closer than ever. Me? I've already moved on. I've got a lot of friends and our friendship (me & others) is fine. We still talk, we eat together. But I will no longer use other people just to make my "enemies" or "best friends" jealous or make them miss me. No, sir. I mean, that's old school, man. Why would I ever use people? And yes, I know that I did that before. But I regret doing this thing. That's why I decided on not doing it again. And I know several people who do this. I won't mention names because I'm not that wicked. Well, I just hope that they'll change. I hope that they will not use people just to get what they want. It's totally a wrong thing to do.
Hm. Friendship? There are many things that you can tell about this word. There can be fights, arguments. Envy? Hatred. And sometimes there's this word called sorrow. I know that you guys feel the pain inside and I know that you're just hiding it. I myself, I hide it. I don't want people to see me sad for they will try to cheer me up, but I know that it's useless. Well, many things have changed. First, I was friends with her. Then she is now friends with blah. I know. So weird. Friendship can end.. Very fast. I mean, very very fast. It's like throwing an old toy. Once you find a new one, you throw the old one up. Replaced. Ouch. Hurts, right? I know how it feels 'cause I felt it.
Maybe a lot of times, maybe a few times. It really doesn't matter at all. Why is there friendship? Why is there friendship if you just keep on fighting with each other? It never ends. Even if you try to stop, it would still happen. I try to stop, but there's no use. Arguments here, arguments there. They're everywhere!! Whatever you do, they're still there. Not only I, but I know that a lot of people have fights. I mean, who doesn't? Everyone has fights! Even if you don't think so, still, there are. Apologies, some are accepted, some are not. But, if you keep on apologizing, honey, what will happen to you? I rather be not forgiven than to be stupidly apologizing even if it's not my fault. I know, full of pride. But seriously, just keep apologizing? Are you kidding me? Yes, I know. You should apologize even though you don't feel like it. But, in my opinion, sometimes you just have to wait for them to do something they have to do. Some people are too forgiving, some don't show mercy. Maybe I'm one of them, maybe I'm part-time forgiving and part-time showing-no-mercy. Yes, I'm nice.. And I'm mean, at the same time.
The bottom line is, people, why do you ever befriend other people if you just keep on fighting with them? I mean, I'm tired of all those stupidity. I just hope everyone would stop arguing with each other. Stop all those fights and be friends. All of us are brothers and sisters. So, we should not argue with each other. Instead, we should love each other. No matter how much you hate people, you should still love them somewhat. Friendship can be a silly word. But friendship really means a lot of stuff. Special things, stupid things. What I know is, friendship is a treasure.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
Labels: fights, friendship, love
Posted on Thursday, September 11, 2008 at 7:55 PM.