An inseparable tandem.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
Problems.
Problems are not that easy to handle. Some problems are formidable, others are just simple misunderstandings. I don't blame those people who misinterpret things because I believe that nobody is perfect. EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES. Don't you think? Everybody is at fault, as a matter of fact.
In a situation, each side has his/her own story. But of course, the only one who knows the whole truth is no other than God. There are different things that lead to fights, arguments or quarrels. These are: *as I have said*, misunderstanding, envy, cruelty and many others.
I. MISUNDERSTANDING
- It's normal for people to misunderstand things in various ways. People misunderstand because of their own beliefs, they believe in rumors and such. Or sometimes because of being unaware of some occurrences that are happening.
II. ENVY
- Most of us encounter jealousy due to misapprehension, selfishness and so on. We all envy. It's alright if you envy someone. Sometimes you envy because you idolize them. Sometimes you envy because you want to be like them. But one thing's for sure, jealousy is a sin, in my opinion...
III. CRUELTY
- People tend to get problems about friendship due to cruelty. There's a possibility that they will betray their friend in a specific reason. But everyone has his/her own weakness. No one is strong except for God Almighty.
Problems can be solved by apologizing which is one way to show sincerity and to show how sorry you are for what you have done. People should also avoid arguing with others if in the end they realize that it's just a damn misunderstanding.
♥BE HAPPY. LOVE YOUR LIFE
In a situation, each side has his/her own story. But of course, the only one who knows the whole truth is no other than God. There are different things that lead to fights, arguments or quarrels. These are: *as I have said*, misunderstanding, envy, cruelty and many others.
I. MISUNDERSTANDING
- It's normal for people to misunderstand things in various ways. People misunderstand because of their own beliefs, they believe in rumors and such. Or sometimes because of being unaware of some occurrences that are happening.
II. ENVY
- Most of us encounter jealousy due to misapprehension, selfishness and so on. We all envy. It's alright if you envy someone. Sometimes you envy because you idolize them. Sometimes you envy because you want to be like them. But one thing's for sure, jealousy is a sin, in my opinion...
III. CRUELTY
- People tend to get problems about friendship due to cruelty. There's a possibility that they will betray their friend in a specific reason. But everyone has his/her own weakness. No one is strong except for God Almighty.
Problems can be solved by apologizing which is one way to show sincerity and to show how sorry you are for what you have done. People should also avoid arguing with others if in the end they realize that it's just a damn misunderstanding.
♥BE HAPPY. LOVE YOUR LIFE
Labels: arguments, envy, friendship, problems
Posted on Tuesday, August 25, 2009 at 9:13 PM.
leavin'
ok, it's hard to leave "someone" or everyone.. but sometimes it's just the right thing to do. why? aren't you tired of being left out, being left behind often, or being talked about usually? well if you're not, i am. that's why i think if i need advice, this is the one they will tell me, too. it's common sense, my readers. you ask yourself, would i apologize? or would i leave them and be happy for old times' sake? A: leave them and be freeee. but yes, i know it's complicated not being with them, although it's manageable. in my case, though. many people told me to fix this problem. but some say that it's over and just move on, be friends with others.. LEAVE them.
eh i'm doing it. leavin' is the word. never coming back again? i found somebody that does it better than they can. :P thanks to my new friends, well these are my friends way back but we're closer unlike before. we play play and play. hide and seek, perhaps? even 21. :D they are truly fun-to-be-with. yes, my "best" friends are funtobewith, too. but somehow it's boring being with them. it's like you're tired of being with them always. so i guess it is overwhelming to be with new people.
i'm very blissful to have my new friends here with me. *oh drama* but yes, they're here with me. i don't know if they even care for me, but i'm absolutely glad that they make me happy. lol not literally. but i'm really having fun being with them. that's why i totally know that what i'm doing is the best thing for me, and for them. so i wish them happiness in their lives and peace as well. i hope we're not to be considered as "enemies", but let's just say we're just friends? (:
eh i'm doing it. leavin' is the word. never coming back again? i found somebody that does it better than they can. :P thanks to my new friends, well these are my friends way back but we're closer unlike before. we play play and play. hide and seek, perhaps? even 21. :D they are truly fun-to-be-with. yes, my "best" friends are funtobewith, too. but somehow it's boring being with them. it's like you're tired of being with them always. so i guess it is overwhelming to be with new people.
i'm very blissful to have my new friends here with me. *oh drama* but yes, they're here with me. i don't know if they even care for me, but i'm absolutely glad that they make me happy. lol not literally. but i'm really having fun being with them. that's why i totally know that what i'm doing is the best thing for me, and for them. so i wish them happiness in their lives and peace as well. i hope we're not to be considered as "enemies", but let's just say we're just friends? (:
Posted on Sunday, August 17, 2008 at 9:29 AM.
discpline? no, freedom!
Yeah, we have to be disciplined by our parents but sometimes I wonder why? Or what for? What if their children suffer from this feeling that she/he is not free? Will this child be locked or stuck in this "dungeon" forever? What will we become in the future? Disciplined ol' kiddos? Like eww. Not that I don't want to be disciplined or something. But sometimes a kid has to be free just like one time. Or why don't you let us be free? Like a fly about to be eaten by this spider. Have pity on us for heaven's sake. I don't mean that we should be pitied but I think they're feeling sorry for us.
Well, why is life so crappy? Is it just karma? Or maybe it's our fault..? I know all of us are clueless and cannot answer these kinds of questions but who do you think is responsible for this? Who's fault is it? Our fault? Yours? Mines? What? Why do we keep on making mistakes and regret doing such things? Sometimes I wish the world is perfect somehow. I know the world is pretty imperfect but we should have a bit happiness in our life. I know I'm "happy", but sometimes it's just a mask. On the outside, smiling and laughing. On the inside, there is such sadness and depression. It's a weird feeling or emotion. Yes, I know. But what I'm certain about is that I'm not the only one having this expression or whatever you call it.
And I have this weird question to ask to my reader right now. Why do people, or why do we have problems? Sometimes it's just "wtf?". Sometimes I wish that there's a button to delete all those problems and just be carefree once in a while. Being stressed out, problematic.. It stinks you know. Not only me have thoughts like this. But I bet everyone has. Often, you just let it out and cry the hell out of you. But the thing is, your tears have nothing to do, so what you do is, you just laugh it all out. Eh? What can you say? You did it all anyway.
I'm so sick of this! PS I'm not emo. :]
Well, why is life so crappy? Is it just karma? Or maybe it's our fault..? I know all of us are clueless and cannot answer these kinds of questions but who do you think is responsible for this? Who's fault is it? Our fault? Yours? Mines? What? Why do we keep on making mistakes and regret doing such things? Sometimes I wish the world is perfect somehow. I know the world is pretty imperfect but we should have a bit happiness in our life. I know I'm "happy", but sometimes it's just a mask. On the outside, smiling and laughing. On the inside, there is such sadness and depression. It's a weird feeling or emotion. Yes, I know. But what I'm certain about is that I'm not the only one having this expression or whatever you call it.
And I have this weird question to ask to my reader right now. Why do people, or why do we have problems? Sometimes it's just "wtf?". Sometimes I wish that there's a button to delete all those problems and just be carefree once in a while. Being stressed out, problematic.. It stinks you know. Not only me have thoughts like this. But I bet everyone has. Often, you just let it out and cry the hell out of you. But the thing is, your tears have nothing to do, so what you do is, you just laugh it all out. Eh? What can you say? You did it all anyway.
I'm so sick of this! PS I'm not emo. :]
Posted on Sunday, August 10, 2008 at 8:38 AM.