An inseparable tandem.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
In my heart, lies a man who would love me until the end of time.
thoughts
I've realized that friendship can end in just one blink of an eye. Many things had happened this school year just after three months. Friendships had been torn apart. People had changed. Things are new.
Our friendship has torn apart. But, I know that there is still a 100% possibility that we will be together again. But, whatever. I'm happy no matter who I'm with or even if everyone hates me. But, I have wondered. I have thoughts. I've realized something. Something that is really common and something that always happens. And I have this question to ask you, my friend.
Why our people different these days? Why do people stab other people's backs? Is it truly normal or is it them? Well, I noticed that a lot of people including me.. are back stabbed. Well, there are fights. And they get together, again. It just sucks. And I hate it. You fight, but then again, you apologize, acceptance and there you go, friends again. I know that being friends again is nice and whatsoever. But, isn't it ludicrous? Quarrels, and then you are friends again? Fight, friends, fight, friends. Damn. I'm sick of all those junk. If you're tired as well, I think my advice for you my friend is.. Stop being friends with people that you know that they're backstabber's.
I know it's not that easy doing it, and I know it's completely complicated, but probably it's the best thing to do. I mean, not all human-beings live just because of their friends. Am I right? A person told me so, and I realized.. Yes, it's true. I know and I believe that I could live without friends. But there are words in my mind. Which are "move on". An end always has a beginning. You can start again. Make new friends and I bet that you'll be closer than ever. Me? I've already moved on. I've got a lot of friends and our friendship (me & others) is fine. We still talk, we eat together. But I will no longer use other people just to make my "enemies" or "best friends" jealous or make them miss me. No, sir. I mean, that's old school, man. Why would I ever use people? And yes, I know that I did that before. But I regret doing this thing. That's why I decided on not doing it again. And I know several people who do this. I won't mention names because I'm not that wicked. Well, I just hope that they'll change. I hope that they will not use people just to get what they want. It's totally a wrong thing to do.
Hm. Friendship? There are many things that you can tell about this word. There can be fights, arguments. Envy? Hatred. And sometimes there's this word called sorrow. I know that you guys feel the pain inside and I know that you're just hiding it. I myself, I hide it. I don't want people to see me sad for they will try to cheer me up, but I know that it's useless. Well, many things have changed. First, I was friends with her. Then she is now friends with blah. I know. So weird. Friendship can end.. Very fast. I mean, very very fast. It's like throwing an old toy. Once you find a new one, you throw the old one up. Replaced. Ouch. Hurts, right? I know how it feels 'cause I felt it.
Maybe a lot of times, maybe a few times. It really doesn't matter at all. Why is there friendship? Why is there friendship if you just keep on fighting with each other? It never ends. Even if you try to stop, it would still happen. I try to stop, but there's no use. Arguments here, arguments there. They're everywhere!! Whatever you do, they're still there. Not only I, but I know that a lot of people have fights. I mean, who doesn't? Everyone has fights! Even if you don't think so, still, there are. Apologies, some are accepted, some are not. But, if you keep on apologizing, honey, what will happen to you? I rather be not forgiven than to be stupidly apologizing even if it's not my fault. I know, full of pride. But seriously, just keep apologizing? Are you kidding me? Yes, I know. You should apologize even though you don't feel like it. But, in my opinion, sometimes you just have to wait for them to do something they have to do. Some people are too forgiving, some don't show mercy. Maybe I'm one of them, maybe I'm part-time forgiving and part-time showing-no-mercy. Yes, I'm nice.. And I'm mean, at the same time.
The bottom line is, people, why do you ever befriend other people if you just keep on fighting with them? I mean, I'm tired of all those stupidity. I just hope everyone would stop arguing with each other. Stop all those fights and be friends. All of us are brothers and sisters. So, we should not argue with each other. Instead, we should love each other. No matter how much you hate people, you should still love them somewhat. Friendship can be a silly word. But friendship really means a lot of stuff. Special things, stupid things. What I know is, friendship is a treasure.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
Our friendship has torn apart. But, I know that there is still a 100% possibility that we will be together again. But, whatever. I'm happy no matter who I'm with or even if everyone hates me. But, I have wondered. I have thoughts. I've realized something. Something that is really common and something that always happens. And I have this question to ask you, my friend.
Why our people different these days? Why do people stab other people's backs? Is it truly normal or is it them? Well, I noticed that a lot of people including me.. are back stabbed. Well, there are fights. And they get together, again. It just sucks. And I hate it. You fight, but then again, you apologize, acceptance and there you go, friends again. I know that being friends again is nice and whatsoever. But, isn't it ludicrous? Quarrels, and then you are friends again? Fight, friends, fight, friends. Damn. I'm sick of all those junk. If you're tired as well, I think my advice for you my friend is.. Stop being friends with people that you know that they're backstabber's.
I know it's not that easy doing it, and I know it's completely complicated, but probably it's the best thing to do. I mean, not all human-beings live just because of their friends. Am I right? A person told me so, and I realized.. Yes, it's true. I know and I believe that I could live without friends. But there are words in my mind. Which are "move on". An end always has a beginning. You can start again. Make new friends and I bet that you'll be closer than ever. Me? I've already moved on. I've got a lot of friends and our friendship (me & others) is fine. We still talk, we eat together. But I will no longer use other people just to make my "enemies" or "best friends" jealous or make them miss me. No, sir. I mean, that's old school, man. Why would I ever use people? And yes, I know that I did that before. But I regret doing this thing. That's why I decided on not doing it again. And I know several people who do this. I won't mention names because I'm not that wicked. Well, I just hope that they'll change. I hope that they will not use people just to get what they want. It's totally a wrong thing to do.
Hm. Friendship? There are many things that you can tell about this word. There can be fights, arguments. Envy? Hatred. And sometimes there's this word called sorrow. I know that you guys feel the pain inside and I know that you're just hiding it. I myself, I hide it. I don't want people to see me sad for they will try to cheer me up, but I know that it's useless. Well, many things have changed. First, I was friends with her. Then she is now friends with blah. I know. So weird. Friendship can end.. Very fast. I mean, very very fast. It's like throwing an old toy. Once you find a new one, you throw the old one up. Replaced. Ouch. Hurts, right? I know how it feels 'cause I felt it.
Maybe a lot of times, maybe a few times. It really doesn't matter at all. Why is there friendship? Why is there friendship if you just keep on fighting with each other? It never ends. Even if you try to stop, it would still happen. I try to stop, but there's no use. Arguments here, arguments there. They're everywhere!! Whatever you do, they're still there. Not only I, but I know that a lot of people have fights. I mean, who doesn't? Everyone has fights! Even if you don't think so, still, there are. Apologies, some are accepted, some are not. But, if you keep on apologizing, honey, what will happen to you? I rather be not forgiven than to be stupidly apologizing even if it's not my fault. I know, full of pride. But seriously, just keep apologizing? Are you kidding me? Yes, I know. You should apologize even though you don't feel like it. But, in my opinion, sometimes you just have to wait for them to do something they have to do. Some people are too forgiving, some don't show mercy. Maybe I'm one of them, maybe I'm part-time forgiving and part-time showing-no-mercy. Yes, I'm nice.. And I'm mean, at the same time.
The bottom line is, people, why do you ever befriend other people if you just keep on fighting with them? I mean, I'm tired of all those stupidity. I just hope everyone would stop arguing with each other. Stop all those fights and be friends. All of us are brothers and sisters. So, we should not argue with each other. Instead, we should love each other. No matter how much you hate people, you should still love them somewhat. Friendship can be a silly word. But friendship really means a lot of stuff. Special things, stupid things. What I know is, friendship is a treasure.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
Labels: fights, friendship, love
Posted on Thursday, September 11, 2008 at 7:55 PM.